20 Mart 2010 Cumartesi









WHICH IS MORE CLOSE TO LOVE TROUBLE OR HAPPINESS?













Some of us try to put the goal of love in the middle. It seems like a goal for many of us. And it seems to take too long and then we continue with another goal instead and love fails at mainly. But, our love have to be like what we see on tv or hear in music. Thus we need to show a perfect love for being happy. However time is not go like this. It does not care about us. We love any girl or boy and we are supposed that s/he will not go anywhere far away from us. Because we believe that there is only the man and "we". And of course things are never go like that. You can believe yourself but your partner behaviours are not controlled everytime and because of this many times love hurts us. While you imagine everyday him/her, you can see him/her with another girl or boy in a relationship. And this day is the your day which is signature to your new trouble life. You can not forgive him/her. Almost a hundred times asks yourself why why why why... or how? Actually we should not care it, If there is one who go away from us. However in the heart things are not live like this. Everyday you keep to think him while he makes lovely days with the other girl! Every second you think him/her that where are they and how they are feeling about each others? Tears are not far away from you in these days. You imagines that you are near him.And at that time this feeling is more atract us. Bad days do not leave from your homes for a long time in this process. When dates that you do not accept him/her invitation is now missed so much. However, you have a reasons that why did not accept him. Many reasons like culture, family, school related problem do not give opportunity to make a point. But you miss this day every minute in your live and invatation's happiness is not changed anything in the world for you. But its too late... Of course love does not fail everytime. The love does not only bring the trouble the sides. We can see how true love is lived by ours adults mainly. How they live together amongs the years. And maybe when we find the true boy or girl, we will understand the other was the wrong for us... maybe...











12 Mart 2010 Cuma







BEING CHILD!






We can observe that people seem braver when they are younger. Every idea could be showed easily. Especially being child brings a lot of quality against the small world. They have no fear, children are visionaries. They trust in their imagination and believe that whatever they can conceive, they can achieve it. In addition they can ask everytime without the idea of if there is wrong. Saying the faulties is not problem for them. Also, if they ever have a problem, they can always just run to mom , dad or grandmother , grandfather and one of them or all of them can mollfy it for children. What a beautiful life! :) This not the end. Morever,
All they worry about is how much time they will have to play outside or go shopping. They can have a lot of toys which are different each other.
It has no matter if they break down the toys because they know that the new one will be brought by their parent. While they are playing with the toys, they are also choosing the new character in every play. Because they are children which means what they want they can do or they can be!
In addition, they can eat everything what they want and almost every hour they have a eating time and this is the one of the biggest chance being the child! I have wanted to return my childhood again but it's too late...

7 Mart 2010 Pazar


(500) DAYS OF SUMMER











"This is not a love story, it's a story about love" at the beginning this sentence is telling everything to us exactly what will happen.But also, it has so unique and wonderful made and written.


I think it is one of the best movies made recently.It's a romantic comedy about a woman who doesn't believe true love exists, and the young man who fall in love with her.

The lover man is Tom. He fall in love with Summer at first sight when she walked into the greeting card company where he worked, she is the new administrative assistant. After that, Tom knew that Summer was the woman with whom he wanted to spend the rest of his life. However Summer did not believe in relationships or boyfriends. After days passed, Tom and Summer became more than just friends. They spend all the day together nearly a year. But, Summer do not call this relationship like a sweet heart, they are just a friends. I must agree with you there, this is so stupid. But, Tom learn a lot of things after these attitudes and love! I will not describe the other parts of the film for watching it yourself.. :) But I must highlight this sentence that summarize it 'the one you love and the one who loves you are never, ever the same person.'



























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4 Mart 2010 Perşembe










DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN














Although there have been a lot of arguments about protecting women from violence, domestic violence problems, in the societies, places on the newspapers nearly everyday. Many married women highlight that facing the violence is not so far away after the marriage. In addition, there are billions of women who have been under the domestic violence around the world. In other words, many relationships which is begun by the love signatures, is mostly continues by kicking, beating and abusing the woman. The reasons for global domestic violence against women can be seen as having psychological origins and as an outcome of the state in social sphere of the society as well as resulting in biological disorders.In addition, domestic violence and abuse are used for one purpose and one purpose only: to gain and maintain total control over wives! Men think that they can be accepted by and their wives will do everything for them by this way. In their opinion, women will respect them. However, men's can see how theirs wives are belonging with them if they only look their eyes or say some love words. But, they are choosing the evil way to be accepted and many disasters occur because of this severity. In a domestic violence situation, before a woman is physically assaulted, she will be subject to often hours and hours built up over time, of brainwashing which leads them to believe not only are they so worthless they deserve to be hit. Thus there is no victim because womens are believed to deserve it! What a pity! Nobody deserve such a bad behaviours. Especially women...They are mothers, sisters,maidservants...In short they are people who care about boys and men. If they are hurt, the society will be hurt from far away! Also, I think if men can be a woman for only one day , they can not live with their shameful behaviours and ideas in the future.